101 reasons i lurve u..

101 Reasons I Love You... by Yaya

                        1. The way your smile lights up a room. 

2. The way you never fail to make me feel like the most special girl in the world.
3. You are so talented and blessed when it comes to sports and yet you remain so humble about the whole thing.
4. You are the sort of person who’d give up everything for the ones you love.
5. You’re so accepting and willing to do anything to ensure I can finish my education and get my life under way.
6. You always seem to be “just what the doctor ordered”; you can cheer me up when I’ve been sitting crying for hours, or be serious when I need someone to truly listen.
7. The aggressive way you act in bed; kind of comforting and very seductive.
8. The fact that my friends like you already(despite never having met you), for making me happier than I’ve been since I moved into the city.
9. The way that I feel when I look into those amazing blue eyes-the peace and calmness that comes over me.
10. You always can make me forget all my problems and make me feel better about the trivial details and problems of my life.
11. I feel so safe and secure in your arms-as though nothing in the world can harm me.
12. Your willingness to be honest and sincere about your feelings, without hiding behind cynicism or sarcasm.
13. The way I get the butterflies thinking about you and I, and how our relationship seems to be going.
14. The way I always want to do whatever I can to please you or make you feel special, though I know it’s not expected.
15. The way that you appreciate even the small things in life.
16. How much you respect me, and respect my boundaries.
17. The careful way in which you are slowly disassembling the wall that I have spent the last 11 years building around my heart.
18. Your patience with me, and the many flaws and heavy baggage that I come with.
19. Your willingness to work around distance and still make this relationship work.
20. How much you listen to me, and truly HEAR what I say.
21. Your amazing smile.
22. The way you are willing to take time to truly get to know me, and see beyond the superficial façade I show the world.
23. How comfortable I feel truly revealing myself to you.
24. Your stubborn nature which matches mine.
25. The smell of your cologne.
26. Your love for horses and the country/outdoor lifestyle I want to live.
27. You’re so dependable, and I know you’ll always be there when I need you.
28. Girls fall all over you, and would do anything for you(many of whom are prettier than me), but you remain true- I always feel so special when you tell me that kind of thing.
29. The sound of your voice.
30. The feeling of your body pressed against mine.
31. The feel of your warm breath drifting across my face when we cuddle.
32. The gentle, yet firm passion in your kisses, and the way you hold me close.
33. You always make time for me, and for us to be together, and make each visit a special memory.
34. That first night we slept together, you didn’t care about soccer the next morning, you were just caught up in the moment with me.
35. The way you can take my ever-busy mind away from everything, and turn it into a one track mind focussed on that moment with you.
36. The way you asked the first time before you kissed me(that meant more to me than you may know or ever understand).
37. The way I feel when I think about you.
38. How proud I am to be able to introduce you or talk about you as my boyfriend. You’re so talented, and driven, with a direction and purpose for your life, not to mention you’re so handsome.
39. How amazing you look in your Wrangler jeans.
40. Your gorgeous body(I’m sorry, I know it’s superficial, but I had to say it).
41. The way you make me want to find the mischievous side of myself, and lose some of the 18 year old innocence.
42. The way you simply don’t care what others think, yet I know that my opinion matters to you.
43. The high value you place on your family and close friends.
44. The way you talk about your God-daughter; you’re going to be a fantastic father.
45. The old-fashioned, polite, debonair way you treat a lady like a lady, not an object!
46. The way you challenge me to step out of my comfort zone just a little bit and grow as a person every day, without taking me to a point that scares me.
47. The way I can be so content with you, whether we go out and do something or simply stay in and cuddle and watch a movie.
48. The way you get me, and understand so well how my heart and mind work.
49. The way you were born in the city, and yet are such a country boy at heart.
50. You can act like such a country boy, and yet still pull off a classy and sexy, sophistocated attitude at all the right times!
51. The way you want to pursue, and achieve your goals the same as I do.
52. How when you talk about travelling, you always plan to take me and include me in future goals because you know I want to travel.
53. The way you rest your head on my chest and sigh, letting go of the things that weigh on your mind.
54. How I find trust, security and so much love in those amazing blue eyes.
55. How safe I feel when I’m in your arms or beside you.
56. Your willingness to drive 2 hours to see me, and to accept the 4 hour distance while I finish my schooling-and I know we can make it work, because I know I can trust you.
57. Your trust of me, knowing that many, ok, most of my friends are guys, and that you can totally trust that we’re all JUST friends, and I would never dream of cheating on you.
58. The simple things you do and say that bring out the true, loving, caring, soft side of me.
59. The way we met-so random really, I certainly didn’t expect anything serious when I met you, but I’m so glad I was wrong.
60. You are so considerate of me and of my feelings, and careful not to hurt me in any way that you can feasibly help.
61. The way that you try and soften the blow when you have to tell me bad news, and always tell me you’re sorry for bad news, even if it’s not your fault or you couldn’t have changed it anyways.
62. You are truly my best friend, and someone I always can trust(which I’ve never said about anyone outside of my family).
63. You’re the first man I’ve totally trusted since my dad’s death.
64. You’re so tolerant of my flaws and my fears, and so willing to work through them with me-including my fear of abandonment after my dad’s death.
65. Your masculinity.
66. The way you will give up sleep just to spend time holding me and watching me sleep, or spending time talking.
67. Your love for playing ‘Truth or Dare’, and the way you make me enjoy it, even though I usually won’t even play that game.
68. The way you make me feel self-confident, instead of self-conscious.
69. You told your friends and you tell other girls you’ve got the most sexy, perfect girl already, you don’t need anyone else. (I almost cried the time you told me about that)
70. The way you can make a few hours during a night, seem to be a heavenly eternity.
71. How you can be gone for only a few hours, and I already begin miss you.
72. How when I wake up beside you, the day just automatically seems great, no matter what I may have to face.
73. How you assure me that I can lay on you and it’ll be ok-that I’m not too heavy, as I always worry.
74. The way you are so bluntly honest.
75. Your ability to make me blush, or take my breath away with even the simplest things.
76. Your enthusiasm over seeing me in a bikini(though I’ve yet to come to terms understanding the logic behind that…).
77. Your excitement like a little kid at Christmas when I send you the photos of myself.
78. The way you always seem to wake me up with picture messages you send me of yourself, though I never mind waking up to those.
79. The way a touch of your hand in the right spot can send shivers down my spine or give me goose bumps.
80. The way you read my reactions like a book, and can tell when I’m avoiding telling you something, despite my efforts to hide them.
81. The way you can sit there and tolerate me being overly talkative(which is a problem I know I have and want to try and fix), but have the most amusing ways of making me shut right up.
82. The way that you never expect me to change, and never ask me to be anything but myself.
83. How you creep into my mind whenever I have a spare moment, particularly when I’m lying in bed alone just before I go to sleep.
84. Whether I’m conscious or asleep, if I’m thinking about you I’m always smiling.
85. You always make me feel as though I can accomplish all of my dreams, even the crazy ones that I seriously doubt will ever happen.
86. Your willingness to help me make my dreams come true, and not let anything stop us.
87. You made me believe in fairy tales, even though I grew up being told fairy tales don’t exist(and especially that a Prince Charming will never ‘rescue’ me), I know now thanks to you that they really do exist(and I have found my Prince Charming).
88. I know that I could never replace you if I were to lose you.
89. The thought of losing you and the fear of it, make me want to cry; you mean so much to me.
90. You’re the first man I’ve let truly near my heart, and you make it all seem so exciting and yet so easy and safe too.
91. How every time I hear the songs “In Your Arms Again” or “Stay(Brass Bed)” I can’t help but think of you.
92. Your confidence in yourself, and yet your willingness to show a vulnerable/less confident side to me.
93. The way you asked me out on my parents wedding anniversary-I’ll never forget that date again.
94. I feel so at ease sharing things with you that I never thought that I would ever share with anyone, especially a man, considering my previous experiences with men in my life(step dad, ex-bf, etc.)
95. You keep telling me what I want to hear, when I say, “Tell me I’m not the reason you just…”, though you won’t ever admit the reason you made a decision, because we both know you lied to make me feel better, and I am part of the reason you just made that decision.
96. The way you are totally and 100% honest with me about things you’ve done in your past, and don’t hide anything from me.
97. The way we are so great together, and things are so easy. We don’t fight, and we have such similar visions and aims and goals for our lives.
98. The way you always inspire me to want to go further, do more and be a better person.
99. The way we haven’t been together, or known one another for long and yet I feel as though I’ve known you forever!
100. The day you told me you loved me, you seemed so hesitant, and afraid of scaring me away. It revealed a vulnerability in you, that I found very sweet.
101. The way that every time you say you love me, my heart skips a beat or I catch my breath.

like this ..

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DON'T cry over anyone who won't cry over you

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Good FRIENDS are hard to find, harder to leave, and impossible to forget

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You can only go as far as you push

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ACTIONS speak louder than words

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The HARDEST thing to do is watch the one you love, love somebody else

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LIFE'S SHORT. If you don't look around once in a while you might miss it

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Some people make the world SPECIAL just by being in it

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When it HURTS to look back, and you're SCARED to look ahead,you can look beside you and your BEST FRIEND will be there

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TRUE FRIENDSHIP "NEVER" ENDS, Friends are FOREVER

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Good friends are like STARS You don't always see them, but you know they are ALWAYS 
THERE

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DON'T frown. You never know who is falling in love with your smile
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?What do you do when the only person who can make you stop crying is the person who made you cry 
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Everything is okay in the end. If it's not okay, then it's not the end

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my dreams "mitsubishi"

from what you see above is something I have always dreamed of. yes, the things I have always dreamed of in my life other than at below "DUCATI 1098" .. I had no idea what the thingis the motor that makes me excited to have them. I'm sure one day "MITSUBISHI" this will be my own. only requires a little effort and collecting money.

my dreams "ducati 1098"

from what you see above is something I have always dreamed of. yes, the things I have always dreamed of in my life other than Mitsubishi cars .. I had no idea what the thingis the motor that makes me excited to have them. I'm sure one day "DUCATI 1098" this will be my own. only requires a little effort and collecting money

glasses that I have always dreamed of ..

This is the spectacle that I have always dreamed of. I really want to wear these glasses. I do not know what is special about these glasses, but there are things that attracted me to wear. not sure yet i can use it and where I can find these glasses .. Ihope so one day I could wear before the wedding ceremony of my uncle.

the bezt damn things...

, get him while ,
, him doesn't know ,

, that he was mine ,

  , sumtinx in my head , 

, what it try to mean ,

, i'll try my best as i can but it difficult ,

, i'll still try it , 

, what can i do now !! ,

, can sumone tell me ??? ,

, helpful please !!! ,

, what answer for this quest ,

=> "what is my name ? "

valentino's day

DI SEBALIK VALENTINE’S DAY…

Perayaan Hari Kekasih atau Valentine’s Day mula membudayai kalangan masyarakat kita khususnya di kalangan muda-mudi, sekitar akhir tahun 1980-an beriringan dgn munculnya siaran-siaran televisyen yg banyak mengupas dan menayangkan iklan ataupun filem-filem yg bertemakan perayaan tersebut.

Perayaan Hari Kekasih semakin dikenali oleh generasi muda kesan dari budaya asing yg masuk melalui pelbagai saluran media sama ada media cetak mahupun elektronik. Perayaan ini dikenali oleh mereka sbg perayaan hari berkasih sayang, yg menurut mereka adalah saat yg paling tepat utk mengungkapkan perasaan cinta dan kasih sayang kpd mereka yg dicintai atau dikasihi.

# SAMBUTAN VALENTINE’S DAY
Perayaan ini biasanya diraikan di kafe-kafe, hotel-hotel atau tempat-tempat yg romantik, yg mana setiap pasangan memberikan hadiah berupa bungkusan coklat atau bunga yg bertuliskan perkataan ‘I wish you will be my valentine’ kpd org yg dikasihi. Setelah itu diadakan pesta-pesta yg diisi dgn hiburan seumpama nyanyian, tarian dan sebagainya. Ini tidak menghairankan kerana budaya ini sememangnya diimport dari budaya barat yg bersifat serba boleh dan hedonisme (menurut hawa nafsu).

Kebelakangan ini, pesta perayaan Hari Kekasih dirayakan dgn pelbagai sambutan yg tidak bermoral seperti yg dilaporkan oleh media massa, yg mana mereka byk menghabiskan malam perayaan tersebut dgn berpasang-pasangan serta bergaul bebas dan sebahagiannya diakhiri dgn pesta seks.

Perkara ini pernah dikomen oleh Ku Seman Ku Hussain dlm akhbar Utusan Malaysia bertarikh 14 Nov 2000 bertajuk ‘Apa dihairankan dengan parti buih.’ Beliau mengulas bahawa serbuan yg dibuat oleh pihak berkuasa ke atas ‘parti buih’ di Bangsar yg diraikan dgn tarian bogel dan pakaian mandi itu tidak menjadi hairan kerana beberapa tahun sebelumnya pernah ada penganjur yg ingin mengadakan parti yg serupa bersempena Hari Kekasih tetapi mendapat tentangan pihak jawatankuasa Masjid Abu Bakar al-Siddiq, Bangsar.

Antara contoh2 sambutan yg diadakan adalah melalui program TV yg ditayangkan atas nama ‘Valentine’s Special.’ Di samping itu, didapati mereka sibuk memilih kad-kad ucapan Hari Kekasih, menempah cenderahati, jambangan bunga dan tempahan utk makan malam bg merayakan hari tersebut bersama pasangan masing-masing. Pihak hotel pula menawarkan pakej2 istimewa seumpama ‘Makan Malam Hari Kekasih atau Hidangan Makan Malam Romantik’ dan sebagainya yg mempunyai tujuan utk menyambut Hari Kekasih.

# APA ITU “VALENTINE”?

Bagi merungkaikan isu ini, kita perlu mendalami dan memahami apakah maksud di sebalik Valentine itu sendiri serta asal-usul ia menjadi sebuah perayaan? Dari sudut bahasa, Valentine dlm bahasa Inggeris atau Valentino dlm bahasa Itali adalah berasal drpd nama sebuah keluarga berbangsa Rom, iaitu Valentinus yg juga berasal drpd bahasa Latin iaitu Valens yg bermaksud; kuat, aktif, sihat dan seumpamanya (laman web Behind The Name: The Etemology and History of First Name).

Menurut sejarah pula, perkataan Valentine diambil sempena nama seorang paderi besar Kristian pd zaman pemerintahan Ratu Isabella dari Sepanyol iaitu Saint Valentine. Jasa beliau yg telah berjaya menumpaskan kerajaan Islam di Cordova, Sepanyol pada 14 Feb 270 Masihi begitu bermakna bg Ratu Isabella sehingga dianggap sbg kekasih rakyatnya sendiri. Justeru itu, 14 Feb disambut setiap tahun oleh rakyat Cordova bg merayakan kemenangan tersebut dgn dinamakan hari Valentine.
# ASAL-USUL PERAYAAN VALENTINE

Terdapat tiga pendapat mengenai asal-usul Hari Valentine, iaitu:

Pertama: Hari Valentine bermula semasa pemerintahan empayar Rom iaitu dgn menetapkan 14 Feb sbg hari cuti bg orang Juno, ratu kpd dewa-dewa dan dewi-dewi Rom. Hari berikutnya iaitu 15 Feb bermulanya Pesta Lupercalia iaitu perayaan tradisi bg masyarakat Rom di mana pd malam pesta tersebut, nama2 gadis Rom ditulis di atas kertas dan dimasukkan ke dlm bekas. Setiap pemuda akan mencabut nama di dlm bekas itu dan nama yg terpilih akan menjadi pasangannya di sepanjang pesta berlangsung.
Kedua: Pada 14 Feb 270 Masihi, St. Valentine dibunuh kerana pertelingkahannya dgn Raja Romawi yg diperintah oleh Raja Claudius II (268-270M). Pada waktu itu Raja Claudius telah membatalkan semua perkahwinan dan pertunangan kerana Rom byk terlibat di dlm peperangan. Menyedari hakikat itu, St. Valentine dan St. Marius telah mengahwinkan orang2 Kristian dgn pasangan mereka secara rahsia. Akibat perbuatan tersebut, St. Valentine telah ditangkap dan diheret, yg akhirnya dihukum belantan sehingga mati serta dipenggal kepalanya pada 14 Feb dlm tahun 270 Masihi. Bg memperingatinya sbg simbol ketabahan, keberanian dan kepasrahan dlm menghadapi cubaan hidup, maka 14 Feb dijadikan sbg hari memperingati kematian St. Valentine sbg upacara keagamaan.
Ketiga: Hari Valentine diambil drpd nama seorang paderi yg paling berpengaruh pd zaman pemerintahan Ratu Isabella dari Sepanyol iaitu St. Valentine yg status kedudukannya adalah di tempat kedua tertinggi selepas Pope. Apabila St. Valentine menyatakan hasrat utk berkahwin dgn pasangannya dari pengamal protestan sewaktu kerajaan Sepanyol berjaya menumpaskan kerajaan Islam, timbul kegemparan rakyat Cordova kerana St. Valentine merupakan seorang Paderi Katolik yg tidak boleh berkahwin dgn pengamal Protestan, lebih-lebih lg paderi sememangnya tidak boleh berkahwin. Tindakan St. Valentine yg mengambil keputusan berkahwin dgn pasangannya itu telah menimbulkan rasa murka Ratu Isabella, lalu memenjarakannya buat sementara waktu. Ratu menetapkan 14 Feb sbg hari Kekasih utk St. Valentine sendiri.

Sejarah di atas jelas menunjukkan bhw Hari Valentine merupakan perayaan keagamaan yg disambut oleh umat Kristian. Malah sekiranya kita merujuk kpd kenyataan2 pihak Kristian pada hari ini, mereka masih menganggap Hari Valentine sbg satu ritual di dalam agama Kristian.

# TENTANG VALENTINE...

Di dalam laman web Spiritrestoration.org: The Premier, Ecumenical Christian Website. A Resource For Mature Christians and Scholars di bawah topic Definition of religious Holy Days (Pengertian Hari-hari Suci keagamaan), di bawah indeks Saint Valentine’s Day menyebut bahawa: “Christian celebration of the love of God presented in Jesus and in the lives of Christian believers. St Valentine was a 3rd century martyr. This day is widely observed in the USA as a secular celebration of love.” Bermaksud : Perayaan Kristian terhadap kecintaan kpd Tuhan, dipersembahkan buat Jesus dan di kalangan penganut Kristian, St. Valentine merupakan syahid abad ketiga. Hari ini dilihat begitu meluas sekali dirayakan di USA sbg perayaan cinta di zaman sekular.

Termaktub di dalam laman web Catholic Encyclopedia pengiktirafan bahawa walau dlm apa jua versi berkenaan dgn St. Valentine, kesemua mereka adalah dianggap sbg syahid. Petikan menyebut : At least three different Saint Valentines, all of them martyrs, are mentioned in the early martyrologies under date of 14 February. Bermaksud: Sekurang-kurangnya terdapat tiga org St. Valentine yg berbeza, kesemua mereka merupakan syahid, ianya disebut sbg golongan syahid yg terawal pada tarikh 14 Februari.

Manakala Britain Broadcasting Company (BBC) News Online Network melaporkan pada hari Ahad, 14 Feb 1999 bahawa terdapat dakwaan drpd biarawan di Gereja St. John Duns Scotus di Glasgow, Scotland bahawa wujudnya tulang Valentine yg syahid, ianya merupakan servis istimewa hari Valentine pada hujung minggu serta diletakkan di ruang pameran sbg pameran umum dgn termaktub di atas kerandanya tulisan ‘Corpus St. Valentine Martyris’. Dikatakan bhw mayatnya telah diletakkan di ruang sayap Gereja St. Francis semenjak berabad lamanya, dan enam tahun lps mereka baru shj meletakkannya di dlm keranda kayu di dlm kotak kadbod di atas almari berhampiran rumah gereja.

Dalam pada itu, nama St. Valentine juga sering digunakan oleh gereja-gereja Roman Katolik bersempena mengingati jasa-jasa tokoh agama tersebut, seumpama St. Valentine Church di Philadelphia, Pennsylvania, St. Valentine’s Catholic Church di Peru, Illinois, St. Valentine Church di Bethel Park, Pennsylvania, St. Valentine Church di Thonstetten, Moosburg, Munich dan St. Valentine Church di Buffalo, New York.
# PENENTANGAN ISLAM TERHADAP SAMBUTANNYA

Berdasarkan fakta-fakta di atas, jelas bhw Hari Valentine merupakan salah sebuah perayaan yg menjadi amalan ritual di dlm agama Kristian. Ini sekaligus bercanggah dgn prinsip Islam yg tidak membenarkan umatnya meniru identiti atau cara hidup agama lain lebih-lebih dlm soal yg melibatkan aqidah Islam.

Islam sgt prihatin dan sgt menginginkan spy umatnya mempunyai identiti yg tersendiri dan berbeza dgn identiti umat yg lain. Kerana itu penghayatan aqidah Islam, pelaksanaan ibadah, muamalah dan akhlak serta tradisi-tradisi yg ada pada umat Islam tidak boleh sama dan serupa dgn umat lain. Dalam erti kata lain, umat Islam tidak boleh mencampur-adukkan aqidah dan peribadatan agamanya dgn aqidah dan peribadatan agama lain. Ini berdasarkan firman Allah SWT (maksudnya):
“Katakanlah (wahai Muhammad): Hai orang kafir. Aku tidak akan menyembah apa yang kamu sembah dan kamu tidak mahu menyembah (Allah) apa yang aku sembah. Dan aku tidak akan beribadat secara kamu beribadat dan kamu pula tidak mahu beribadat secara aku beribadat. Bagi kamu agama kamu, dan bagi aku agamaku.” (al-Kafirun ayat 1-6)

Demikian juga penampilan peribadi umat Islam tidak boleh sama dgn umat lain dlm hal-hal bersifat individu, misalnya dlm hal berpakaian, minuman, hiasan rumah, gaya hidup, penampilan dan sebagainya yg dikhuatiri bercanggah dgn identiti dan syariah Islam. Hukum Islam jelas dlm hal melarang umatnya meniru atau menyerupai budaya dan cara hidup org bukan Islam. Ini berdasarkan sebuah hadith Rasulullah SAW (maksudnya):

“Sesiapa yang mengamalkan perkara yang bukan dari pada amalan kami maka ia akan ditolak.” (Riwayat al-Bukhari dan Muslim)

Dalam hal ini Panel Kajian Aqidah (PKA) dan Panel Kajian Syariah (PKS) Jabatan Kemajuan Islam Malaysia (JAKIM) telah memutuskan bahawa “Amalan menyambut Hari Valentine’s Day adalah haram dan bertentangan dengan ajaran Islam”. Manakala Jawatankuasa Fatwa Majlis Kebangsaan Bagi Hal Ehwal Agama Islam Malaysia kali ke-71 yg bersidang pada 22 hingga 24 Nov 2005 memutuskan: “Bahawa amalan merayakan Valentine’s Day tidak pernah dianjurkan oleh Islam. Roh perayaan tersebut mempunyai unsur-unsur Kristian dan amalannya yang bercampur dengan perbuatan maksiat adalah bercanggah dan dilarang oleh Islam. Oleh itu amalan meraikan Hari Kekasih tidak digalakkan oleh agama Islam”.


Sumber: Elak Sambut Valentine’s Day

Notakaki: Dunia akhir zaman menyaksikan terdapat juga umat Islam yang turut meraikan Valentine’s Day. Lihatlah betapa mudahnya minda kita dijajah tanpa sedar! Kristian meraikannya atas kejatuhan Islam, lalu mengapa umat Islam sendiri juga turut mahu meraikannya?? Seolah-olah menghina agama Islam itu sendiri. Dalam Islam, tiada istilah "kekasih" buat pasangan yang bercinta, melainkan dalam hubungan yang sah dan halal. Jadi sambutan "Hari Kekasih" juga sama sekali tidak wujud dalam agama yang suci ini. Oleh itu, ayuh bangkit dan sedarlah... Sebagai orang Islam, kita juga tidak seharusnya menyambut perayaan ini yang terang-terangan bercanggah dan bertentangan dgn Islam!